Yes, you need a proper support to raise your children. It doubles when your child is physically disabled. Stay in tune with someone who guide you, offer you proper advice and understand the condition you are going through. It can be from your family, your friend circle or even social circle. When you have the positive feeling, ‘Oh I’m not alone’ oozes you with confidence. Also, you would need physical support from your family.
Just stay away from negativity! Raising a disable child is indeed a difficult task and you have to travel through a number of negative talks and discouragements. There can be negative feelings of blaming; there can be negativity of disappointment; fear over future; overloading with too much information and much more!
The negative emotions will definitely lowers your confidence level and make you weak! All you can do is just avoid the people who let you down. Or simply, try not to indulge with the people who carry negative talk on your child.
Bring out positive vibrations to surround you to make your family bond stronger.
A disabled child definitely needs a little more extra care and attention from the parents. You have to spend quality time with your gifted baby. The disable child may behave odd. You have to stay patient and think a lot how you will handle the situation without hurting the child. If you need, you can seek suggestions from your physician or consult a specialist.
Encourage your disabled child generously and celebrate every progress.
What you can do to provide a better life your disabled child?
Don’t panic and don’t just think about disability. Enjoy your time with your little one without thinking about the disability. Time will help you and your child get better.